I absolutely hate shopping for jeans because it's usually "Skinny or super skinny or jeggings."
And I don't even have your problems. I just don't want to pour myself into uncomfortable skinny jeans.
When there are 8 kinds of skinny jean in the store and half a kind of anything else (as in, it's there, in precisely one color choice) it's a problem.
I also find that most jeans retailers don't cater to anything shorter than a 30" inseam and if you don't like to roll your pants...
It feels like a constant battle and I can't even imagine what it's like for people who are less of a standard size.