I can't say I have but then I have a different relationship to gender to most people.

BUT I am laughing at the ladder thing. "Giant gender affirming prop."

I HAVE however done things to make people question their view of gender. Like the time I was at my mother-in-law's place and her husband asked her if she could handle the propane tank and she said "It's fine, Greg's coming with me."

Greg is my husband. We looked at each other and then when we got to the store, he stepped back and *I* lifted the propane tank into the car. I probably couldn't do it right now after two years without access to weights (Still not comfortable going back to the building gym), but it was so worth it for the look on her face.

It wasn't even THAT heavy, not much worse than schlepping jump standards around at the barn.