What the...I'm 5'4 and that's like two pounds over my healthy weight, that's not REMOTELY fat. I'm currently 148 and still don't consider myself fat, although I'd love to get rid of this stupid perimenopause spread and get back to being 135 or so.

I was 128 as a teenager...and you could play xylophone with my ribs.

As somebody else said, my condolences to the groom...