Wow. You are completely missing the point.

The point of this post was to be more inclusive, but women who don't fit the definition are still being told they are not women.

I am a woman, so of course it matters to me that people are telling me I'm not one and trying to push me out of womanhood. (You are not the first).

I was trying to express that there is a hole in your definition, but you are as set on defining womanhood for women as our mutual enemies, and as determined to define somebody out.

Your definition is better, but honestly I think there may be no definition that will make everyone happy...and that's just fine.