You have, however, repeatedly argued that one parent should not be able to remove a child from the other if the child is in danger.

Courts take months to decide this and often remove the child from the custody of BOTH parents while they do. Or they don't step in until somebody dies.

I never argued that the woman should tell a man he's the father when he isn't - that's reproductive coercion.

I am arguing, which you persistently disagree with, that a parent should take steps to keep their children SAFE from a biological parent that cannot be trusted with their safety without having to necessarily go through a legal process.